I’m a Democratic feminist from a small town in New York, while my best friend TC is a younger Republican from Milwaukee who owns guns and believes in conspiracy theories. Despite our vastly different backgrounds and beliefs, we formed an unlikely friendship that has taught me valuable lessons.
We met when I moved to Florida with my mom in 2020 and needed help setting up our computers. TC, who runs his own computer business, came to our aid. Despite our contrasting views on politics and other issues, we hit it off and began hanging out regularly.
Our friendship blossomed over shared experiences, like enjoying meals at Madfish Grill and exploring nearby towns. Although TC and I often avoid discussing politics to prevent disagreements, when the topic does come up, we handle it with humor and respect.
Our ability to accept each other’s differences without trying to change one another has been a crucial aspect of our friendship. Despite our disagreements, we prioritize kindness and our shared interests, which have strengthened our bond.
In a time of political polarization, our friendship serves as a reminder that relationships can thrive on mutual respect and a focus on common ground, rather than on forcing conformity or constantly debating our differences.
